Resolutions are dumb. Most of the time we end up breaking them about a month or two in and feel bad about it when we do. Which is why last year I decided that instead of hard, defined resolutions, I would make loose goals and guidelines for myself that I could carry with me all year long. And after reading my journal this week and looking back on the year, I actually stuck with all of them. Even my soft declaration that 2010 would be the year I got abs came to fruition. Well sort of. Let's just say that if 2011 is the year I cut back on burritos then this would be the year they show through.
The end of the year is also a great time to look back on your relationships. Whether that's looking at the familial, the friendly, or the fuck buddy, they're all deserving of reflection. Mostly to fully realize what lessons you've been able to take away from each. Was there something about that guy you went on a few dates with that you want to find again? Maybe you found yourself in the middle of a breakup and didn't treat your ex with the respect they, in retrospect, deserved. Whatever the case may be, this next year is a great place to continue molding yourself into whoever it is you want to be, and surrounding yourself with the kind of people that will appreciate it.
So besides meeting the perfect daddy or hunter on Daddyhunt, fill in the blank: 2011 will be the year that I ______________.