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I love giving head. Next to eating burritos and snuggling, it's probably one of my favorite things to do. But you know what? I'm not a huge fan of getting head. They're fine, and I've had a few really good ones, but it's just one of those things that doesn't do it for me. In the heat of the moment they can add to the fun of flipping and flopping power, but I guess I always want them to be more exciting then they are. Am I alone in this?
If I'm not alone in this, and you're not into it either, then where does that leave the ones who like to go down? I guess it's the same problem we run into if everyone is a bottom. In an ideal world we'd all be 100% versatile (just think about how much more we narrow the dating pool by not being positionally compatible). It always seems like getting head is the considered one of the greatest things in the world. Straight culture especially seems to laud the act with the highest of praise, but I can't help but wonder if I'm missing something.
Can we talk BJs? Let us know what you prefer, how you prefer it, and if sexual compatability has been an obstacle for you before.
Comments
Submitted by Almost9Hard on Fri, 2012-05-18 20:40
I have to say this is a subject I'd love to give my two cents. I'm 45, got great nips that are hardwired to my cock. However, neither are very sensitive and for the last 30 yrs or so, I've tried (LORD, how I've tried) to convince guys that I need a lot of stimulation, that teeth on my nips or shaft drive me nuts.
Now, one of three things happens: 1) they just don't get it or just ignore me and it feels like my dick in a bowl of warm spaghetti, 2) they jump to the extreme end of the scale, gnashing and gnawing...and even though I can take it, they just need to work up to it and warm me up a bit. I like clamps and weights on my nips and I like a dude who chews the hell out of my cock, but spend some time enjoying, eh?
I'm told that I give great head; even had some dudes ask, nay beg, me to not make them cum just yet...my secret? Pay attention to the dude, give him more of what he likes and back off of the shit he don't...and for goodness sakes, if the man tells you he likes something, BELIEVE HIM!! If he's telling you, especially something outside the norm as myself, it MAY be taking a lot of courage or confidence just to TELL you something that personal...and ya never know...maybe he might know something about his body he's been playing with for the last (37 in my case) years that you, the person he just met, may not know.
Well, for what it's worth, that's two cents in this economy. Huh? What's that...I forgot about the third thing? Oh yeah, there are guys out there who, after I tell them I want them to abuse my dick with their teeth, actually pop their dentures out and give me one helluva a gumming. I've had them try their damndest to convince me that I just need to let them show me a good blow job. The first thing I think: "I just gave you my personal recipie, guaranteed to never fail...fool-proof...apparantly not, you stupid fuck."
Submitted by greeneyed ... on Sat, 2012-05-19 23:07
I am so with you on this!!! Too-many self confessed "great cocksuckers" are too self-delusional to realize a great BJ takes more than attempting eye contact while exfoliating a shaft with their teeth. Though I do love training guys to give in a manner I find enjoyable! Just my penny to the ante!!
Submitted by HoustonMa ... on Sat, 2012-08-04 12:38
Sexual partners who are too insensitive to listen are bad no matter what you are doing with them. A couple of years ago I hooked up with this hot looking guy who needed his nips worked a certain way while he went down on me. Well it was so contrived and controlled that I lost interest, and then it was like having a baby calf hanging onto a teat. And when I tried to get the guy to moderate, he just didn't have a clue.
Submitted by CapitalUncut on Sat, 2012-05-19 08:41
I love getting head and feeding my load to a hungry man but it has always been rare for me to climax just from being sucked...I usually have to jack that last stretch to reach the point of ejaculation. Now, when it comes to sucking a guy off, I usually can make a guy cum like a horny teenager with just my mouth. I love worshiping a nice cock with my mouth and being rewarded with every drop of his load. I don't at all enjoy being "face fucked" and I will press cancel on a guy who doesn't practice good hygiene.
I was married and I understand the straight man's passion for getting head: No matter how much of an alpha we might be, sometimes all a guy wants is to just kick back and be tended to. Many women freak out over the notion of sucking cock, and the overwhelming majority of gals is terminally lousy at giving head no matter how much practice they might get. And, sometimes a guy just wants some fast relief and nothing satisfies like an eager, willing mouth...no muss, no fuss. (Before all the prudish, anti-sex bullshit began in the late 1980s, guys just leaning over to suck off another guy at urinals was quite commonplace. No complications, no strings, just quick satisfaction and back on your merry way.) I do have a thing for married guys because I know what it's like for them...have been a FWB with quite a few over the years. March Madness was always my favorite time to be traveling on business...any bar with a TV showing the games was like shooting fish in a barrel for me...some evenings I might get to suck 5 or 6 guys (usually in the restroom)...and nail 2 or 3 in the ass to give them what they definitely can't get from the little woman back home with the kids. I also enjoy kicking back with a married guy with a baseball or football game on. And, once in a great while, sucking off guys at a game. :D
Submitted by SilverbearSD on Fri, 2012-05-18 22:06
I have to agree, sucking cock is my greatest joy - always trying to improve my techniques and variety of performance skills. There was a time early in my life when I loved being serviced and wasn't interested in returning the favor - boy has that changed as now all I want to do is give worship service with little or no reciprocation. As a cocksucker or suckee we learn early that teeth are the enemy - except for a rare few that like a little chewing or biting. As an intact man, I also know that for many the glans can be very sensitive to not only teeth but a rough tongue. When I have found that rare man that wants some teeth or chewing it really goes against my training and mindset - and it is very hard to do something you've trained a lifetime against doing.
Jewelry is another issue, whether a Prince Albert or other metal elsewhere on the penis - what a turn-on that was for many years, and I really enjoyed the feeling of that metal entering my throat. Now after having spent many thousands of dollars on dental work, I'm not so inclined to risk the teeth I've worked so hard to preserve. While I sometimes fantasized that gumming a guy in my old age might be wonderful, I think having my own teeth in old age seems like a better choice.
As to cleanliness, I've been evolving a bit there. I really don't like a raunchy smelling man, nor do I like fragrances or deodorant, especially if I'm going to be licking pits. I used to be very offended at smegma, especially my own. While I still don't like a ripe genital area, and I better not smell your ass when I'm slurping away down there, I've recently discovered a little bit of fresh cheese can be very erotic. I definitely have a preference for foreskin, pulling the skin up so I can really get my tongue down to clean and tickle the piss slit before really going to town on the worship service. I also enjoy the feel of a soft cock in my mouth - so taking you from soft to hard and back and forth adds to the edging that will drive you insane. It may prompt you to grab my head or my ears, some. That is ok to a point, but I really want to be in control, and edge you as I see fit and hopefully increase the agony and ecstasy.
I like to say I'm an "old school" queer into sucking and not much into fucking. But now I'm seeing other changes and I may not be alone. Nature is not kind as we age - I don't run around with a constant erection like I did in my 20s, and many years thereafter. I see that my topping days are numbered, so an activity that I did enjoy especially in a committed relationship is probably not going to be a reality in the coming years. I expect to live to be old, possibly past my 80s if not well into them. My libido shows no sign of abating, quite the contrary, it seems to be increasing in direct proportion to my diminishing performance, so being able to give body-numbing, mind-blowing head becomes even more important to my sexual repertoire. I'll be very happy to jack and likely shoot when you unload down my throat.
Submitted by pecosjack on Mon, 2012-05-28 14:33
I'm a fairly aggressive lover and love to suck cock, but as far I'm concerned getting blown is only foreplay for me.........I prefer to fuck my man......and if possible make him cum with my cock inside him......but I'm always happy to finish him with my mouth after I've fucked him....or if he's up to it, take his second load orally. I love the taste and texture of clean hard cock and of thick cum........like to roll a foreskin back with my tongue but am definitely not limiting my practice to uncut cocks.
Back in the days of glory holes, my joy was to suck several cocks, find a hot bottom and take him home and fuck him and suck him........would still love to do it but glory holes are hard to find
Submitted by hardgeminiguy on Mon, 2012-06-25 01:33
steamworks bath house in chicago has great glory holes. when in chicago i get sucked off there-stick my hard cock in a hole and in a minute or two a mouth is trying to suck out my cum! such a hot way to shot my load. i can hold back cumming but when i can not take a well trained tongue/mouth, i shoot my thick load in his mouth. feels fantastic!
Submitted by jscorpio on Fri, 2012-05-18 23:33
Chemistry is what does it for me really....
State of attraction, age, behavior and voice is what helps me become what I would like to call "A SLUT FOR COCK!"
Now, I know I'm young and should enjoy my sexual appetite, in a safely manner of course. But I quickly notice that LUST IS AMAZING but runs out is Natural High after cumming.
So I usually hold out for someone with personality, even if its just a one time evening of bliss. I like to chat and get to know the person still before anything happens.
I'm strictly bottom and I LOVE SUCKING, but I hate receiving it because of two things.
1. YOUR ARE REALLY BAD AT IT, especially after you claim to be the Cock Sucking Master
or
2. YOU ARE REALLY REALLY DAMN GOOD AT IT!!!
#2 - is a hit or miss. Because if I find you manly, attractive and aggressive and waiting to pound me like a salvation army drum, i am just ready to blow. Being a chubby guy, I am surprised that I hook up with the most sexiest, hairiest, bearish or athletic men but half of them can't seem to understand that I CUM EARLY, REALLY EARLY... some find it hot, some didnt.
I can keep going and going... but IF I think I can have one night of bliss, I would like the both of us to cum at the same time and not let you spoil me by giving me head.
p.s. I don't spit or swallow (is that a turn off - cuz i don't like JIZZ in my mouth) but facials are ok... does that level it out?
Submitted by catchinsa ... on Sat, 2012-05-19 00:19
for me, bliss is 69ing with another uncut man who has managed to arouse me enough to get me in that position...doing so for hours on end, and then the payoff, unloading at the same time....sweet.
Submitted by Coloradoboy on Sat, 2012-05-19 00:23
First of all, I will admit that I'm a cock whore. I do love giving head. In fact you could probably say that I worship it. I don't think I'd care if I ever received head again. For me, it's about pleasing the guy I'm with and making sure he gets a happy ending. But if that happy ending does include me getting head then I wouldn't say no. Most guys I've been with usually just give me a hand job after they blow their load, which is totally cool too. In fact, I'd be much happier with a hand job as long as he's making out with me at the same time. I find that hot.
Well, those are my thoughts about that subject!
Cheers!
Submitted by Foreplayhours on Sun, 2012-05-20 23:17
Thanks!!! You summed it up nicely for me too!
Submitted by Stevevolcom (not verified) on Sat, 2012-05-19 00:31.
I am not personally a fan of receiving head, most the guys I've hooked up with have been cut and don't know their way around an uncut cock, some have been fantastic but oral in general just isn't my thing, a little bit both ways as foreplay is the perfect scenario for me. Bottom here and that's where my sexual passion, be it power bottoming for someone who wants me to take control or being submissive and dominated by a strong older man, that gets me hotter then anything.
Submitted by skyreader on Sat, 2012-05-19 10:44
Have to admit to a heavy preference for giving more than getting -- partly because my foreskin is tight, and guys often don't know how to handle that. Yet, it is more than that. My pleasure points seem to be in my mouth -- lips and tongue working on the infinite variety of beautiful and fragrant dicks I have carefully liberated from jeans, shorts, jockstraps. A circumcised dick looks proud with its mushroom cap beckoning a pair of lips to grab hold and pull at the beveled head. An uncircumcised dick has a flavor that cannot be found anywhere else in the world and the benefit of extra skin that can be pushed and pulled up and down, back and forth. Some guys are grossed out by the taste (even a showered one has some). For me, it is a sweet aphrodisiac that excites and enlivens my performance. Both kinds of dick allow the exertion of power over them, as you suck in and savor the taste and note the level of precum (almost nonexistent or as copious as Old Faithful). This discovery makes for great excitement. And all dicks seem to be different in size, texture and taste. All have their charm. The anticipation of the final and full culmination of one's efforts -- the gasping -- soft or loud -- you've elicited, the pulsating of the moment, the flooding that may fill a small part of your mouth, half of it, or leave it so full you're not sure you can take a drop more. Now, what an adventure that can be.
Submitted by wayne123 on Sat, 2012-05-19 15:01
I think MOUTHS and COCKS were meant to go together..
SORT of like PEANUT BUTTER AND JELLY or SOAP N WATER..
In my opinion...ONE almost needs the other to be happy at different times.
AS a VERY ORALLY SKILLED man..
I love...wait ...WORSHIP at the temple of COCK..
Giving head is a skill that I must say...I was born with extreme talent in....
LIKE STREISAND KNEW WHO TO SING..
LIKE A SALMON SWIMS UPSTREAM...
I SUCK COCK..:)
LOVE IT , AND MOST OFTEN HEAR THE SAME IN RETURN..
ALL SIZES..ALL SHAPES...UNCUT GET RIGHT TO THE FRONT OF THE LINE..
THAT IS LIKE THANKSGIVING DINNER TO ME...!!!!!
But as a skilled giver I must admit...I am a HIGHLY skilled receiver..
IF a man can take my cock and suck me off till I cum right down his throat:):):)
OHH BOY...
A GOOD TIME HAD BY ALL..
I hate to pull out...BUT ALWAYS oblige..
IT is a MUTUALLY GRATIFYING ACT..
TO SUCK...AND TO BE SUCKED..
MAY they carry on forever...MAYBE ONE DAY...a category of our own,
in the SUMMER or WINTER OLYMPICS...
AFTER ALL....IT IS A SEASON-LESS SPORT!!!!!!
Submitted by nycgymguy (not verified) on Sat, 2012-05-19 15:16.
wow very interesting how many guys prefer giving it to getting it. But that's good news for me, because most of my sex is just kicking back to receive and unload. It's true that it's usually easy to find a guy eager to suck cock, but it's surprising how many arent very good at it --- and in my experience, the worst ones are usually the ones who boast how great they are at it.
For me, good head has nothing to do with how "hot" the guy is objectively. Sometimes I cant even get hard for a gorgeous muscular young guy if he has no talent or instinct for giving great head. I really get excited when the cocksucker is sensual and attentive to pleasing me....when he really takes his time, fondling my crotch through my jeans, trying to breathe in its scent, feeling my chest, rubbing my balls, etc. In other words, seducing me, the ultimate reward being my hard cock in his mouth...and it takes some time before his lips open for the head.
Oh yeah, and definitely ---- NO TEETH.
I also love, like a few other posters, for the guy to grab my nuts hard (squeeze or pull) right before I shoot, for the most intense orgasms.
But here's my dilemma: after Ive cum, I love to lie back and bask
in the glow, maybe caressing the guy's hair. But I dont have any desire to go down in return. I get the impression most cocksucking guys are OK with this....a lot seem to be happy just servicing, and some jerk off, which I like watching, especially if they are sucking my balls or licking my chest, or armpits etc.
Ok, so am I a pig?
Submitted by TrumanHunter on Sat, 2012-08-04 17:32
Thank You NYCGYMGUY, Guess I'm a PIG too? You discribed my needs perfectly! Sometimes I feel so guilty and selfish about it? But after reading from so many who like to give and how all I can say is Thank God for the COCKSUCKERS! I too just love to layback work my nipples and enjoy the sensations. I too am not in the mood to suck right after orgasm. Which makes me feel selfish. So if I'm with a guy who I have the urge to suck I try to please them first then lay back and enjoy their attention.
Submitted by ardmorefrank on Fri, 2012-09-21 17:44
thar discribes me to a T I love to suck cock and many as possible at a shot but I do not like to get sucked or jerked off after I have sucked one or more cocks, I just don't feel like it my pleasure is in giving the total pleasure and getting him to shoot deep in my mouth, nothing like feeling a guys cock get hard and rigid as he shoots deep in my mouth thank god guys love to get sucked.
Submitted by goodman45 on Thu, 2012-08-16 23:46
it only makes you a pig if it's discussed before you get serviced if the servicee expresses that he might like some sort of stimulation (not necessarily head) which will aid in him popping his cork; it may be something as simple as nip play (sucking, fondling, pinching, etc.) or perhaps a few smacks on the ass, but whatever it may be, it's just the sporting thing to do especially after they've put all that effort into getting you off. the problem with most men, whether they're gay or straight, is that they're too self-absorbed and self-centered to even think about any form of reciprocation.
Submitted by 4mulajeff (not verified) on Sat, 2012-05-19 16:45.
Giving a BJ is more satifying for me. Never could get into L7 or 69 or whatever its called now. Maybe it is/was the way I was receiving..too much teeth..too wet.... When I give...I get hot...not only from giving the BJ but running my hands slowly around the receiver's thighs, butt, balls, chest( furry all over preferred) and nipples.
Submitted by MrBill on Sat, 2012-05-19 19:22
I'm glad you brought this issue up. I love giving head, and much more so than receiving it. What confuses me is the concept that men who suck cock are thought of as bottoms. Cock sucking, especially done right, is not a passive role; it is as active a sex role as any other of the things that " tops" do. So I wonder, fellow cock suckers, particularly when you're not into so called "bottom" activities, how do you respond to the inevitable question, "are you a top or a bottom" ? (My enigmatic response of "I'm a side" isn't well received.)
Submitted by lowhangers on Wed, 2012-07-18 03:10
My response is almost uniformly "full-spectrum true versatile".
Submitted by fuknuse on Sat, 2012-05-19 23:14
Prefer giving head and taking cock: Yeah, being a bottom may be limiting but it's what i'm built for and so i go with it. (That said however, if the chemistry is right, sure, i'll sometimes flip. And when i do? It's great.)
Regardless of whatever it is that works for you i say be good giving and game, play safe always, and just do it and enjoy yourselves.
Submitted by HornDogNH on Sun, 2012-05-20 01:39
I love to suck cock, but I really love to get sucked and fuck a tight hole! Grrr! If I'm lucky, I'll find a hot guy that I can both fuck and suck at the same time. Talk about your hot simoultaneous climax!
But, the best climax I had was with my best bud when we 69'd eath other this one time where came in each other's mouths at the same time. It was fuckin' HOT! Still makes me hard thinking about it. Grrrrr!
Submitted by inkedginger on Sun, 2012-05-20 02:14
yeah nothing like giving a nice long BJ to a fella. Im the same in that i dont care too much about getting it back. I just enjoy giving it and watching the guys face
Submitted by suitdad (not verified) on Sun, 2012-05-20 09:30.
There is nothing I like more than looking into the eyes of a hot guy with my cock in his mouth. 100% bottom guys who are attentive to me and who are willing to be a little rough with my dick are the best.
Submitted by HumpyBearDad on Sun, 2012-05-20 10:38
Here's the thing....there are a lot of men out there who don't PAY ATTENTION.
We are, as men, prone to getting a hard-on and doing whatever we can to get ourselves off. Sure, it should be a good time for the one who's doing the sucking, but ultimately, it's about the man getting blown and how amazing you can make him feel.
I have found that I'm not all too interested in getting head most of the time but I've always found giving it is a great, fulfilling and exciting adventure in trying to figure out what will make my partner lose his ever-loving mind.
Paying attention to what drives a guy crazy and then doing that with controlled abandon is what, in my opinion, good sex is all about - especially oral.
Submitted by chgocolt on Sun, 2012-05-20 11:24
I'm the opposite of you. I LOVE getting head, and not real big on giving it. Nothing is more satisfying to me than a truly talented cocksucker working over my cock and savoring the reward. Sure, if I'm dating someone I'll work on thier cock a bit, but I don't have the passion for it and really don't care for the taste of cum. I love it when an especially hot cocksucker will blow his load on my cock and lick it clean. Feeling his mouth slick with his own cum when he's sucking me will always bring me over the edge.
Submitted by Doingitwell on Sun, 2012-05-20 12:06
I hear you. I always feel like I am the outsider because I LOVE giving head but for one reason or another receiving it is borders on a turn off for me. I do my best to be compatible for my partner and do it but in my head I instantly get removed. Is it so weird to want a guy who only wants to receive head and not give it? Again, the actual act of it feels fine but I suppose I am just that much of a bottom that I don't even enjoy that lol. Either way, the point of my story is that: No, you are not alone! My advice is just be honest with your partner and do whatever makes you happy and that you both are comfortable with!
Submitted by vinyltop on Sun, 2012-05-20 12:34
I love getting head,but not one to give it.
But if someone wishes for me to return the favor definitely fair is fair .
I lost count years ago how many guys have given me bj's but I'd say I clearly qualify as a head receiving expert .
Though I can honest count on one hand what I call qualifies for getting incredible BJ's
One turn out to be my BF for 10 yrs.
Most bj's are good and with eventually make me cum but on a scale 1-10 very few I'd call 10's.
IMO a 10 bj the minute his lips hit your cock you feel like you want to explode in mins,as though you have no control and it being sucked out of you like a 10 hp shop vac .
In fact they feel so wonderful the problem is holding back cumming because you don't want it to end .
I hate to admit it and definitely not my forte nor really enjoy it , been told often I give great head .
Why because unlike many who proclaim there great at giving head I come to realize each and every
and every man likes his head a little bit different ,some like a guy to suck at light speed and others slow gentle and easy.
Some like there nips or prostate played with while getting bj' etc
I look up at a guys face as I'm giving head to see his expression you can tell if he's really into it .
You hear a guy moan while your sucking him off it means whatever you doing at that particular second feels wonderful too him ,give him more of it .
I not shy to give a guy blowing me a little instruction on how I like my head .
Many time putting my hand on the back of his head and adjusting his speed etc .
Honestly I think the ones who give insanely great head are just born cock suckers while most it learn from experience.
I know I occasionally been looking at a guy in passing and think to myself,hmmmm he has lips for giving blowjobs.
Submitted by ReallyTodd on Sun, 2012-05-20 13:00
I am in a 100% agreement with what you said in your initial statement. I love giving head and everything about it. When a guy gets ready to start to blow me, I almost freeze, quickly reversing it to letting me give the person head again. BTW, a nice taint and butt ain't bad either ;-)
Submitted by monogamou ... on Sun, 2012-05-20 15:08
I much prefer giving blow jobs, rather than getting blow jobs.
Submitted by tony8008 on Sun, 2012-05-20 15:33
I love giving head. I'm not saying I'm the best at it, but when given the choice I'd much rather give. Getting is much more work for me, and it usually ends In me taking control and changing the situation. It's not that it feels bad, on the contrary, it usually feels pretty ok, but I need more stimulation than that to get off.
Submitted by DaddyCraig on Sun, 2012-05-20 17:28
Definitely was born to be serviced, and that's a term that encompasses not just getting head from an eager partner, but an entire context/scene that has other aspects which include dom/sub interaction, boot worship, etc. If a man tells me he worships cock and wants to serve me in that way, I'm willing to give him the chance, but it invariably requires some training. I like some teeth. I like the rest of my body worshiped as well as my cock, especially my pecs, delts, and arms. I like long sessions that run for an hour or more, with him edging me, and interspersing those periods when he backs off with other activities until I'm back from the edge. I've found if I jack off or otherwise come a few hours before our session, I enjoy it a lot more because I can go for so much longer.
As for sucking cock, I've done it. Not my favorite thing to do, unless it is with a man I'm exceptionally close to and whom I want to give that pleasure to specifically. And that's perfectly fine because there are so many out there willing to suck me exactly the way I want it.
Submitted by Sturdy on Sun, 2012-05-20 18:26
I'm another one who likes to get it rather than give it. This is absolutely no problem for me because I am constantly meeting guys who are the opposite.
Most of them are bottoms anally, but there are a few who only want to suck and nothing else. Quite a few are submissive, at least as a fantasy during the session, and pleasuring the Top is part of what does it for them.
It seems that a lot of Top guys are similar to me (I know a lot of Tops since I started my website for them 2 years ago - www.foct.info); they prefer receiving oral to giving it. I think there are different reasons for this. The dom/sub factor is part of it, but not the only thing.
I think the way gay men enjoy sex can be very different. For one guy, it can be about the sensations he gets from his cock interacting with another man's body (mouth and ass). For another guy, it can be about experiencing another man's cock rather than his own; he wants to taste it and feel it, inside and out (his own being too familiar).
It's great the way the two mesh together so beautifully...
Submitted by Sensual-Dad on Sun, 2012-05-20 23:09
Mostly, I don't like cum. There have been a few exceptions...guys I was so into that I wanted their cum as part of the overall package. But add to that, I'm not physically structured to give head easily...small mouth, big teeth - that sort of thing. I don't mind sucking a guy for awhile as part of making love...something I usually do more for his pleasure than mine. But I don't want oral sex to be the main course. Further, it pisses me off quickly if a guy tries to face-fuck me. As for giving me a facial, that also strikes me as disrespectful. No 69...if I'm going to do oral on a guy, I need to focus totally on that. As for getting sucked - it might feel good, but very rarely gets me off.
However, I'm really glad to read what all of you have had to say...I had no idea there were so many guys happy to give but not receive. Had I not read that, I'd continue to feel guilty if a guy sucked me but I didn't want to suck him in return. It has reminded me that not everyone views things the same way I do...good that there are so many viewpoints.
Submitted by divorceddad on Mon, 2012-05-21 04:27
Hey man, I'm one of those guys who prefers sucking dick to getting mine sucked...although I do love a hot bj...I'm greedy I guess ...just love a big dick in my mouth. Regarding the guy above...sorry I disagree...nothing hotter than that big load at the end of a sweaty night of mansex.
Submitted by billybareblu on Mon, 2012-05-21 04:51
It's my favorite thing, giving and receiving, but I rarely find a man who sucks it how I want it. It comes down to technique. Most guys have no sense of what they are actually doing in relation to what their partner is experiencing, or how to vary the performance to suit different situations. Not all cocks are the same so one style of cocksucking is not going to satisfy every cock.
When I suck a cock, I worship that fucker. I explore every bit of it as many different ways as I can, and when I notice a positive reaction from something I come back to that again and again. That's what I want from someone sucking me as well.
I think fear is often a problem as well. If you are worried about setting off your gag reflex, worried you can't breath, worried about cum in your mouth, etc...you will never get into enjoying it and will never be able to give a really good BJ.
A big popsicle, like a bomb pop, is great to practice on. if your teeth grate on it, that's a cue to open your mouth wider, and the cold helps numb that gag reflex as you experiment with deep throating as you're sucking. Or, get one of those big pickles, nibble off a small hole on one end, then eat out the entire contents by just sucking it out. Or, try eating a ripe peach or plum with no teeth, sucking the juice and meat off the pit.
Submitted by johnfnfl on Mon, 2012-05-21 15:11
Very few guys EVER satisfy me giving me head. Maybe it's because I'm so used to masturbating or perhaps they are lousy cocksuckers...lol As for me, I've been giving head for 56 years with almost no complaints. My best compliment was that "I could make a statue cum."
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I've had bad and good head,but,even bad head will make me shoot,there is no such thing as bad head. One guy's moustache rubbed me raw on top of my shaft which I didn't particullay enjoy, but I still came twice,he definitly had skills. I let the giver choose where he wants to be-sitting,kneeling,head down,whatever,works for me. When I'm ready to shoot,I ask them to grab my balls hard and that is so awesome. I like to edge a couple times,so I suck them awhile also so we both can have happy endings - dosen't always work, so I guess I need to improve my skills - but I always have a good time if the other guy wants to play.