This blog post is about how to meet a single guy for dating, courtship and a long term partnership. Though hooking up with guys can be fun and exciting I’m in the “how to” find a Boyfriend/Soulmate/Partner/Spouse/Husband/ trade-- the love business, so to speak.
Four myths of dating.
First: “All the good guys are taken.” What a bummer this one is—I can assure you that not all the good guys are taken and in fact there is a great pool of adorable, smart men waiting to meet their future mate. Some of them are reading this post right now.
Second: “I can’t deal with rejection” Reality check: rejection is part of the dating scene. It’s a great equalizer—gorgeous guys, and men from every state of life have gotten rejected. It sucks but ultimately the best answer to rejection is a four letter word, “Next!”
Third: “Men will flock to me for dates.” If only! Ninety percent of men are not going to approach you-you’re going to have to approach them. Even hot guys have to make the first move. I promise you’ll develop a sexy confidence –a quality many singles are drawn to.
Fourth: “Dating is not work.” Dating is work but with a great dividend: a boyfriend. But it’s also has to be fun; otherwise, you’ll never be motivated to take a risk. Suggest to your date fun places to go (amusement park, wrestling competition, gallery opening) and to do (drive to the ocean, horseback riding). No need to turn first dates into exhaustive talkathons. Get out there and have some fun.
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