While I have enjoyed many wonderful encounters from this and related sites, ones that cater to an older/younger audience, I sometimes feel that I am either misleading or dishonest. Recently, I met a young man and we began an email conversation. He always referred to me in his mail as "sexy daddy" and we ultimately met. Now, I realize he only wanted a "daddy" type for play, nothing more and I can deal with that. Yet, I find I am not comfortable with the daddy label for myself even if it accurately describes who I am, especially in the eyes of the young.
I have many friends in long term relationships who are of the older/younger milieu and who are completely happy together. When I am around them, I sense how right they are for each other even when separated in age by 30 years or more. Nevertheless, I so often feel that I am not a real person in their eyes but one they have conjured up that suits their fantasies. In short, I don't need to be real---just OLD
I understand the attraction, the chemistry aspects of any sexual allure, and my fondness for younger guys never wavers. I would appreciate your thoughts and any suggestions of how I may alter my profile to be more accurate about my tastes. I tend to have a way with words---perhaps all the wrong ones!
Dear Uncomfortable Daddy,