About

About Us

MISTER is a gay chat app that’s truly different from the others.

We’re an online, mobile community for men who value themselves and other men. Unlike rival gay social networking apps, MISTER encourages users to show their faces, to be respectful, and to waste less time searching and spend more time meeting quality men in the real world – whether you’re looking for fun or something more serious.

Why do we do this? Because we believe in the power of individuals to build a better, more civil app community – one where users don’t misrepresent themselves, list discriminatory preferences, treat others with contempt, and ignore or disrespectfully reject one another outright. The truth is that behind every iPhone, iPad and Android is a real person – a real man – and MISTER believes we ought to recognize that fact. We should be accountable to one another and treat each other like human beings in our virtual interactions. That way, we’ll all live in a more positive and less alienated gay community in reality.

So when you use MISTER, be clear and up-front. We think it’s cool. Go ahead and state whether you’re husky or skinny, whether you’re HIV-positive or negative, whether you’re mature or young, whether you’re a top or a bottom. And be proud of it.

In the meantime, we’ll be doing our part behind the scenes to get you linked up with the men who are right for you. MISTER’s new “MR. Right” feature learns what type of men you’re attracted to as you use the app and makes smart introductions, showing you more men it thinks you might like but whom you haven’t seen before. It’ll save you time and get you off your mobile device and out on more dates. With MISTER, you’ll have MR. Right as well as plenty more smart tools at your disposal. You can learn about them all on the MISTER features page.

One last thing: MISTER asks users to follow a simple code of conduct in using the app. It’s a sort of shared set of values that we all agree upon. Appropriately enough, we call it the MISTER Code.

  • Maturity: MISTERs act like adults. No games. No attitude.
  • Integrity: MISTERs live authentically and honestly.
  • Safety: MISTERs protect themselves and their partners, emotionally and physically.
  • Truth: MISTERs represent themselves accurately in their profiles.
  • Enjoyment: MISTERs value mutually pleasurable experiences.
  • Respect: MISTERs treat each other with respect.

Basically, we want to help you find men by being yourself and being kind to your fellow man. That’s when you’re at your hottest. We want all of our users to be proud to say, “I am MISTER.”